“Rao bpai ti reua tam nai krap? Kon mak mak kon. Rao dai bpai ti suuan,” I say to my teacher Nao, “why are we going to the river? There are too many people. We can go to the park.”
Nao is patient. Frankly my Thai is horrible, but after three days together Nao can understand me like an experienced care-giver does a non-verbal child. “Suuan mai mee Loi Krathong kha. Le rao ja je kruu le rak riaan iik kha,” she says, “the parks will not have the floating baskets. And besides we are meeting others.”
Travel in foreign countries with those actually from those countries is often like this. You discover as you go. The common denominator is sweat, excursions two hours too long, foods you politely swallow without chewing, sudden fatigue at the realization that everyone knows more and better. Todays epiphanies include: The lighting of the lanterns in Bangkok is banned this year due to multiple fires last year caused from ten million flying candles. Failure to comply with the edict is punishable by death or five thousand dollars. We are meeting three other teachers and three students at the Sathorn Taksim BTS stop while another student is already waiting for us at a stop far upstream. You can’t go home in such traffic even if you wanted to.
I am just happy I don’t have diarrhea, which would be typical, and have just learned how to use the words who, what, when, where and how-- tam nai, arai, meua rai, tii nia, yang ngai. And with these and other auspicious beginnings, we arrive at Sathorn Taksim, find our party, and get on the public boat-bus without difficulty just as it starts to rain. We disembark at Phra Athit just when the clouds part. The weather is uncharacteristically cool. Thousands talk, gesture and move in happiness and excitement. The displays, food stands, surrounding neighborhood, and traditionally dressed are a forward blur of colors and smells.